Excerpts from The Book of Love:

SEX

Sex is no different than any other aspect of life: the more you give, the more you receive. You know what you want from sex with a particular woman, but she doesn't....and what do you think she wants from you? Do you have any idea? No. Try to find out and then give it to her while you are also treating her to your desires....she'll get a double helping and wet your appetite and anything else that comes to hand.

Women are responders, not initiators. She wants to respond to you, but it's up to you to lay the groundwork and create the atmosphere and the situations for her to respond to. A woman is programmed to please a man....she wants to please a man, and possesses all the goodies and innate abilities to do so. Appreciate her goodies and let her know she is beautiful, and then keep one eye on the ball while you are leading her down the path of seduction so you can pick up on the clues she gives you as to what she likes and doesn't like about what you do to her and with her. Give her what she wants and she will roll over backwards to give you what you want (if that's what you want!).

Remember that almost all women have very little confidence in themselves and their bodies, no matter how beautiful they are....so you must always reassure her that she is desirable and beautiful.

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