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You'll become the most amazing lover your man has ever been with,
and that goes a LONG way to keeping your man focused on YOU.
.....if the man is with you and is making
signals that he fancies you and wants to go to bed with you, then
relax and enjoy the fact that he fancies you, no matter how many
insecurities you may have about the way you look....and EVERY
woman has a bagful of insecurities about her looks---you're not
the only one, believe me. He wouldn't be with you if he didn't
want to be, and every man who wants to be with you wants to
go to bed with you. Put all your insecurities away and lock
the box and assume you are desirable, because that is how he will
be feeling. If he wants you, he will have eyes only for you. If
you are confident about your body, whether it's perfect or not,
that confidence will make you all the more desirable and all
the more beautiful to him. I can't emphasize this enough.
So, no matter what you look like,
if the man is with you, he wants to be with you and he
thinks you're pretty tasty, and you are therefore beautiful, got
it? Act that way with him....it will please him and flatter
him, and it will make you feel great. You are the most beautiful
woman in the world when you are with any man who wants to be with
you. Never forget that.
For instance, if you've got a great
ass that sticks out (another thing most of you don't like and
ALL of us do), but you are clever and smart and want to be appreciated
for your personality and brains, show off your ass by wearing
tight things; attract the man with your ass first, and
THEN dazzle him with your wit (or anything else you want to dazzle
him with!). From a man's point-of-view, this makes perfect sense....and
all men like a woman who knows what she's got and shows it off
to her best advantage, whether it's her ass, hair, legs, breasts,
eyes, mouth, or fingers, even.
Attraction, then interest.
I remember seeing an interview program about a guy who only
liked very busty women and was now married to a girl who was beautiful
and enormous on top. She was bright, had her own thriving business,
and you could see they really loved each other. It was amazing
to me that several women in the audience questioned why he liked
busty women.....and why he didn't go for the girl "inside."
This was a classic example of the differences in how men and women
think. He did go for the girl inside....but he went for
the girl OUTSIDE, first.
This man thought the way we all do: he happened to love busty
women---some men love women with boyish figures, some men love
plump women, women with long legs or a great ass.....whatever---the
point is that this man was attracted to this girl because of her
enormous bosom and the fact that she was pretty. He then got to
know her, found he liked who she was, and she liked who he was,
and loved the fact that he loved the way she looked. Win-win for
both parties. He fell in love with her, and she with him, and
they got married. That's how we operate. We are attracted to you
for whatever visual reasons, and everything flows from that. You
don't work that way, but we do. This also insures that
you don't throw whatever pearls you have before swine.
See?
Neat.