About
Men
Well....we
could have left this page blank(!), but actually there is a lot to know
about men that seems to flummox women.
Men
certainly understand themselves, just as YOU understand yourselves,
but you don't understand us and we don't understand you. There are powerful,
simple, and clear natural reasons for this puzzle, and it's ESSENTIAL
for our survival that we are a mystery to each other, as you will learn
in The Book of Love. Looked at in one way, it may seem a very odd way
for Nature to proceed, but in fact, it's exquistely elegant. You'll
"get it," and once you do, the whole of mankind will become
available to you.
Here
are a few of the basics: men are very simple...we are not nearly as
complex, devious, or circumspect as you! That's why you get us wrong
all the time because you think there has to be more there. This is all
explained fully so you can finally UNDERSTAND men, so you will know
what to do, and more importantly, what NOT to do regarding them. Once
you understand where men are coming from, you will be able to make the
right choices among those you attract. And when you finish The Book
of Love, you'll attract plenty!
You
will also learn the one Great Mistake most women make with men.
This
sounds painfully obvious, but men are different than women, and there
is a good reason for this. Many women want men to be more like them...why?
It's the DIFFERENCES between us that make the Whole Enchilada work!
The Book of Love explains why this is so, and once you understand what's
going on, the blinders will fall from your eyes so you can enjoy men
and revel in the differences between you and them, rather then be frustrated
by those differences. You will become a woman who is attractive to men
and with whom men want to be and enjoy. You will understand them and
enjoy men for what they are...and what they are not! And they will love
you for it.
You
will become much more of a woman in the process. The more woman you
are, the more attractive you will be.
The
essential mystery will still be there to entice you, but it won't frustrate
you. On the contrary, you'll want as much of it as you can get. It's
like camping: if you don't know much about living rough outdoors, it
could drive you nuts and you'd be uncomfortable and just want to go
home. If you know about camping, you can really enjoy it and look forward
to the experience. 'Just a different mindset.
In
all species there is the attraTED sex, and the attracTIVE sex. In birds,
the males are attracTIVE and the females are attracTED because the females
have to be "plain" to camouflage their eggs. This opens the
door for the males to be the colorful ones who flash their feathers
and shake their tales to excite the girls.
In
humans, it's the opposite, of course. Men just love to watch you flash
your feathers and shake YOUR tails! See? Simple.
Men
are interested in sex for its own sake, while you are interested in
love (and sex). Hence the design of the cover of this book which reflects
our SEEMINGLY mutually exclusive desires with each other. The Book of
Love explains why this is so, and why it HAS to be that way. It all
has to do with genes and how we are both hard-wired so differently right
out of the box so Nature's program is adhered to and we survive as a
species. Men think about sex THIRTY-FIVE TIMES more than women! Once
you understand why men are wired the way they are---and why YOU are
wired the way YOU are---The Book of Love then gives you the tools and
strategies to complete a circuit that won't fizzle or explode, but will
arcweld your man to you exclusively and (most important) voluntarily.
You will have to unlearn a lot of collective, flawed feminine "wisdom"
regarding men to access these strategies, but The Book of Love shows
you how to do it and how to be successful with any man.
Men
are driven to provide, consequently what they do is very important to
them. Many women fall in love with a driven, successful man and then
become frustrated when his work comes before the woman in his life.
The Book of Love demonstrates the many mistakes and misconceptions women
make regarding men, and teaches you how to avoid those pitfalls.
Men
really enjoy the company of other men. This frustrates many women who
feel left out, neglected, or sidelined. The Book of Love shows you how
to deal with this and turn it to your advantage.
The
Book of Love will give you the confidence to engage men at any level...you'll
be in on the gameplan---you'll see behind the man-curtain for the first
time and understand how it all works. You'll also become the best lover
your man has EVER been with because you will know what excites and tantalizes
him and you'll gain the confidence to do it with moxie!
A
woman who knows how to please a man will bind him to her.
You
will also learn how to develop and apply the most powerful aspect of
your feminine being to inspire your man, giving him the ability and
the juice to exceed his current talents many times over. This is a potential
most women don't even realize they possess. It is THE most important
quality you can bring to the relationship table. You will learn all
about this critical charm and how to engage it. This will make you an
incredibly desirable woman to ANY man and will make any relationship
soar.
The
Book of Love exists SOLELY because of one woman's inspiration.
And
if you give your man (or any man) a copy of The Book of Love, he will
become the greatest lover you have ever had, and a man who knows how
to lovingly tease and treat his woman. To push all your buttons in just
the right way!